Dating a ex boyfriends friend
And there certainly are times when people who go down this path find that it really wasn’t worth it.
Your ex and "your friend" are the ones who should feel stupid, NOT YOU! Their relationship is working because of the "scandalous and forbidden" element. When that wears off, and everyone in the community moves on to the next piece of gossip, and your ex and your friend really get to know each other, the appeal will fade. He or she could be doing this to you to act out his or her passive aggressive anger.
Like I said, years down the road perhaps you can consider it if you're still into it. Whatever the reason is, you have a moment of weakness and you hit up your ex. They ask about your dog and how your grandma Sue is doing, and for some reason you're aroused.
And a month-long relationship may not even count as a real "ex", but going after the remains of a four year relationship puts you on the bottom of my list and I don't even know you. Boredom/horny Maybe you're in the middle of a dry spell. Your ex is familiar and it won't increase your number at all #recycle. Satisfaction You know you broke up for some reason, but the sex is still damn good.
But you do need to make sure you go about this right.
Luckily, a woman can approach this in pretty much the same way a man does, and that’s where I can help a sister out.